I've been single for a year, and the dry spell has ended with 3 guys I'm pretty interested in. One is out of town-- never asks who I see here. Unspoken "don't ask don't tell, I see you when I see you" kind of thing. Locally there are 2 guys I'm seeing. One I can be totally honest with, as he too is open about not wanting anything serious. The newest man is ultra sensitive, and I think I have the biggest connection and intrigue with him... What to do with all this?
Is it fair to just not tell #3 about my other friends? At least until we've gotten to know each other better?
I'm not "with" anyone, so I really don't think I'm doing anything wrong, but I also don't want to hurt anyone..
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LOL, your other "friends"... You're right, you're not with anyone so you don't owe them fidelity, but it's a little silly to pretend you really care about their feelings. Maybe you'd prefer they not be hurt, but let's be honest. You are dating three people at the same time. It is all about you. The very reason you're asking the question means a part of you knows you're gonna hurt someone and that you're OK with doing it if it means having lots of options. No one here is going to know anything more than you beyond that.0