To know the woman, to get laid? to kiss her?
And if you guys kiss the first date what do you expect later on next dates?
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A first date is to get to know her and determine basic compatibility. You may have seen her, found her attractive and her personality pleasant, but you don't really KNOW her, so the first date is to confirm that all the things you initiallly liked about her are real, and that there are no major deal-breakers. And a good percentage of the time, there ARE deal-breakers, so not every first date is going to lead to a kiss or a second date.
Some girls you find there's no real attraction once you spend a little time with them. Some girls may be different than you thought personality-wise: brainless, shallow, self-centered, cruel, etc. Some girls may have another big deal-breaker:
- political ideology
Assuming that both of you still feel the attraction, and there are no major deal breakers, I'm expecting to kiss her before the end of the date. I definitely don't expect sex, though I've gotten it before, and it was a surprise for both of us.2