Including my crush, he keeps talking to me about the girl he likes and about the date they are planning. I keep telling him to have confidence, and that I'm sure that she likes him back...but at the same time...it's killing me that I'm pushing him at the other girl, and I don't want to push him away.
But, I have no one to talk about my feelings, and I feel like I'm going mental.
I don't feel like I can go to any of my friends to talk, because they always come to me for advice, how can they help me?
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You know what, go to your friends anyway. See if they have any insight of their own. They may surprise you. Besides which it's not as if advice between friends needs to be a one way street. If they can't listen, refuse to listen or whatever, then they're not good friends. If they don't know what to tell you, then that's different, but at least you'd have a chance to vent, and heck, at least maybe, they might, at bare minimum, try. So you can always talk to them.
You can also talk to people on this site. There are some people on here who I find are surprisingly good listeners. Some even have insights that could change your entire view of a situation. I have found some real good friends on here that way. So you'd be surprised.
Now people may not be able to help you with getting your guy, but I gotta tell ya, it's awesome that you are such a good friend, that you are willing to put aside your own wants and needs, just to help him with his relationship, even though you secretly want him for yourself. Even though it kills you inside. Still, for what it's worth, I think you're a great girl for that. Who knows though, maybe someday (god forbid) you'll luck out someday, and his relationship will end. If so, then maybe you'll finally have a chance.
Anyway, all I can say for now is be strong, talk to us, or talk to friends. After all, if you can't talk to your friends, and you can't talk to total strangers, then who can you talk to about your problems? No matter what though, I'm rooting for you finding some kind of happy ending.
Good luck out there.2