I don't think I'm an ugly guy (see for yourself by my pic) but I feel like I have to approach any girl in order to strike up a convo or to get them to talk to me. My last girlfriend said I was very intimidating but I don't see how that's possible. I'm nice, respectful, genuine, and I take good care of myself. Is it just because of the stereotype of guys should always approach girls or am I waiting for something that's never going to happen?
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A lot of girls aren't going to make the first move because its easier to find out if a guy is interested in us when they approach. By the way you described yourself it kinda seems like you have a strong personality, which is never a bad thing but your ex probably felt a lot of pressure to be with you. I think if you like someone, go up to them rather your the man or woman in the scenario! If she likes you, she'll make an effort. If she's not comfortable with doing so, then she'll do w.e. she can so that you can.1