Sorry this is kind of a story.
Me and this girl were friends in high school, we hung out a lot, never dated, but we didn't really hang out outside of school much. So after high school we kind of lose touch. We would text each other, but rarely ever hung out. I would either ask her to hang out or she would ask me but it just never happened. This continued until I felt like it was just me still trying to hang out with her. Eventually we stop texting and don't see each other for about 3 years.
About a month ago I see her at a friends birthday party. We talk and agree that we should hang out. We start texting and again still can't seem to ever actually get together. One week I ask her to hang out on 3 separate days and she claims to be busy every day, and never tells me when she is able to hang out. On Friday I invite her to come to my bands gig. She says she will be there. So later that night she never shows. I text her and ask her what happened. She claims she came but forgot her ID and couldn't get in. I ask her why she didn't just let me know because I knew the bar owner and could have gotten her in, or even just gone outside to hang with her. But she didn't really have an answer. We haven't talked since.
So is this just a failed friendship. I know neither of us are trying particularly hard to get together, but I feel like I have been putting in more effort than her. Should I attempt to see her one more time, or just call it quits?
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I think that when there is interest in you to hang out with someone you do just about everything, complication always come to make things difficult but some how we always make it work even if your late. What I'm trying to say here is that her desire or her interest to hang out is not really there and if you value her friendship maybe you can just stick with that, and wait for her to ask you out, if she ever does.0