Ok so my names Chris I'm 25 about to turn 26 and I've never had sex or even kissed a girl its all because I have social anxiety disorder but I'm getting better and now I'm starting to think about having a girlfriend. So does it make me a loser to have never kissed a girl or had sex. And I'm scared to have sex I just want to please her but I don't think I'm gonna be able to. What do I do?
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I wouldn't concentrate on a relationship, a first kiss, and sex before you even ask a girl out. It's like putting the cart before the horse...take things one step at a time. Focus on first finding a girl you're interested in and making sure she's interested you before you even think about doing anything physical with her.
Now that you're better with your social anxiety, get out there and meet girls. Possibly through friends, the internet, frequenting bars/libraries/concerts/amusement parks. Now that it's summer people will be out an about and that will present you with perfect opportunities to meet potential girls.
The kissing and sex will happen naturally, as it does for most people. Most people are nervous for their first kiss anyway. Just take control when you think she's ready for a kiss. When the time comes and you're ready for a relationship and to take those next steps toward sex, just sit down and have a talk with your girlfriend and explain to her that you're a virgin so you're inexperienced and see what she says. More than likely, she'll be willing to help you out and calm your nerves.0