so there's this new guy in my grade named ty, and we chat after school while we're waiting for our rides to come pick us up. my friends are now like "omg you want him!/ he wants you!" and stuff like that. he's really cute, and we're always joking with each other, but I'm not ready for a relationship. & there's another guy named tom who I literally always catch looking at me. he's cute too, and we chat a lil, but we're not as close as me and ty are. why does tom keep staring at me? they're quick stares like when he sees me looking back he'll look away. I sorta want a relationship, so if I choose one of them then that'll be the one that I'll focus on ya know? but I don't know which one to choose.
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It seems like it's just a decision you have to make for yourself. You haven't provided pros and cons of either guy and you even say yourself that you barely know them. So hold off a bit until you get to know them, you can still date someone without getting into a "relationship" per se. The quick stare look away thing is kinda a flirting thing almost.0