Just out of curiosity... I'm aware a lot of guys go for the sluts for a number of different reasons. But If a guy has specifically talked about finding girls who are slutty and cheaters gross... then why would he talk to them? Just to be nice? Or because he wasn't aware at the time that she was like that?
Furthermore some of them actually pursue dating or relationships with these girls... I don't understand this. Guys... any reason why a lot of you do this?
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For the same reason girls go after jerks.
A) People say one thing, and do another. Deeds, not words.
B) You/They see a different side of the person you're/they're with. You see a slut, he sees a girl with a past. You see a rough-around-the-edges guy with a temper, but who can be sweet from time to time - we see an asshole who treats everyone like garbage.
Everyone has friends and enemies; people are loving and hating the same person for different reasons. You cannot expect your opinion of someone to be the dominant one. Or the correct one. Furthermore, not everyone conforms to your view of relationships. Everyone likes sex. Slut is just a term for someone who likes sex and has it as much as many girls would like to -- even if it's often with more than one guy. Monogamy isn't for everyone).
If you don't like sluts, don't date them! xD And, if you're so inclined, don't date the guys who do either. Just don't walk around thinking they aren't worthy of a date just because they're different from you.1