I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and two months and about a month ago I started liking this guy and I found out he likes me too. He told me he respects that I have a boyfriend and that he doesn't want to mess things up. He also told me that he wants me to like him, but at the same time he doesn't because he doesn't want to mess up what I have with my boyfriend. I love that he understands. The thing is, we've been kinda flirting since then. He's SUPER sweet and I love everything about him. I love my boyfriend, but I can't stop thinking about this other guy. I don't know what to do.
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The most rational thing to do is to create a list of positives and negatives of sticking with your boyfriend and moving on with the other guy. Then, decide. Of course, using rational techniques may not work with the subject of love, but it's ultimately dependent on what your heart wants.1