I know all that stuff about what women think about guy's looks and personality, but, at the end of the day, have you girls ever been in a position where between the average guy with great personality and the handsome guy with average personality, you chose to have sex or relationship with the average guy and shut handsome guy out the door and nothing ever happened with him?
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Well..I had a crush on a realllllly cute guy...and he was a total jerk in the end. And I decided to get with my next crush...who is not as cute or attractive...but he is a complete sweetheart...so kind...and gentle..and fun..rarely ever a jerk. (He's my boyfriend now) I know it does not exactly match your description...but I feel it is close enough...I don't like jerks...some girls do..but I don't. I don't care how hot you are...if you're an a**hole...I starts to lose interest pretty fast. And I am not shallow...I admit..my boyfriend is not gorgeous or handsome or hot...he's cute...yes..but not the hottest guy around...but he makes me feel warm and accepted and fuzzy and cared for and really happy inside...and he makes me laugh and smile and so much more...looks can't do all of that. So yes I chose the average crush over the really cute crush...cuter than my boyfriend now. ;) Not all girls go for the hot jerks...I don't go out of my way to be abused by a jerk just because he has a handsome face...how silly. ^.^ My boyfriend's a sweetheart...you don't need fantastic looks to be one. =)1