I met this guy online through Craigslist... I know, it already doesn't sound good... He just moved to the area and is looking to meet new people. I answered his ad because I was bored and figured I'd give this a shot. Well, he seems nice and we've messaged back and forth a bit. We talked over IMs too quite a lot. I'm just not sure whether I should meet him in person.
He wanted to meet, so I said that would be nice and we could maybe have breakfast or dinner. Then he tells me he just wants to say hi and see if we're comfortable with each other and see what happens. So, pretty much he says no to eating together. He says he doesn't know the area and is staying with a friend for now until he finds a house. He keeps telling me he's a nice guy and that he just wants to get to know me better. Then today, I get an email from him asking if I can send him another picture, one that shows my figure, but not a dirty pic, just a nice one. That really confused me, so I got a bit upset. Eventually, he tells me that he deleted the other pictures I sent him.
Does that seem normal or am I blowing it out of proportion? Should I take a chance and meet him? Opinions? Suggestions on how to go about this?
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Have you seen any pictures of him or had any contact with him that isn't in text form? I don't think that it would be a good idea to meet up with him as well. He sounds kind of strange, especially when he said that he didn't want to get something to eat.
Seems abnormal, but if you play it safe and meet in a very public place, then it could be okay. As long as he doesn't follow you home, you should be good and who knows, he may actually be a good guy.
In my honest opinion though, give it more time and see if he has patience, how long have you known him?0