A week ago I met this hot guy at a bar. He asked me to dance, we did for a while. We got talking and came to find out that we had many similar life experiences. Like I'm talking specific, losing our mothers at 18 to intense sh*t/ cancer/heart. Anyway, comes back to my place. Talk all night until 6amand then leaves at like 11am- he's a cool, sexy dork. We like the same things, movies, life except he doesn't want to travel. First 'con' for me .. Then chat here and there through bbm. later that same week, he comes and meets me again at another bar. I ignore him at first and well don't pay much attention. When I finally do, he's all over me so sweet! Then all of sudden starts flirting with my friend. I get mad and his response is " I'm not your boyfriend" I say "well duh, but don't flirt with MY girls. Gest heated a bit of yelling... I think alcohol aided that.. so not too worried. Anyway we get close fast and I start liking him, as much as I think he liked me, then when I think, okay this guy is something... he flips and is completely ignoring me!? Like did he lose interest? Does he think Because I am currently in a complicated relationship, that its best if he acts like a jerk to me, it will make things easier or simpler? We have so much in common, he liked me so much and was so flirtatious. Now what to do. I really want to see him again.
Then I remember, " f*** you, why are you here?" To which I replied, what do you mean, I said I was going out downtown?" Then he left. I was drunk so I don't remember everything.
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You were playing games by ignoring him... You lost control of your emotions and got jealous when he talked to your friends... You tried to overplay your relationship with him (clingy/controlling). You yelled at him and picked a fight (drama queen)... After all of this stuff did you apologize and try to talk things over?2