So I guy I went on a date with, after the second or third date he texts me "i wanted to let you know I don't want a girlfriend right now, I just want someone that I can treat as well as a girlfriend without any of the attachments. I have a lot of things going and I don't want anything to get in the way of that. I'm telling you this because I like you".
I figure this to mean friends with benefits sort of thing and I said fine, just not sex because makes things more complicated, but the next time we hang out we go bowling (he pays), and then take a short walk, and he says goodbye and hugs me.
I'm wondering what this guy is thinking. If he wanted a friends with benefits like thing why would he just hug me and leave and not try for more knowing that I already said I would.
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If he really does like you he would have asked you to be his girlfriend. He would of offered you a proper relationship you as any woman would deserved. If he just wants to inform you that he does like you but isn't interested in having a girlfriend right now then what is he after?0