My friends and I have experienced guys bringing up sex, but saying do you wanna chill, drink, and dance at a crib. How the heck will we find out if they're really interested in more than just sex...The date goes normal at first.
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If they bring up sex on the first date, they are not in it for the long haul. Any guy who was decent and wondering that you might be girlfriend material would never bring up sex on a first date for fear of scaring you off.
Now, if a guy asks you out, he is physically attracted to you. So, sure, he is thinking about you sexually. But if he takes you seriously as girlfriend material, he won't think of sex or making out on a first date BECAUSE MOST GUYS DON'T THINK GF-MATERIAL GIRLS HAVE SEX THAT QUICKLY. They do not want to imagine that you sleep around or have jumped into bed with other guys on a first date. Let that sink in girls.
There is such a glamorization of casual sex right now. They even made a movie out of FWB. Didn't watch it but they probably sent a mixed message that showed that FWB can result in love. In real life, they rarely do. Casual sex is as old as dirt. The down side to casual sex for women is as old as dirt. If you want a relationship, ditch the guys who talk about sex or look for it on the first date.