So I have this friend whom I've had a crush on for a little while. I finally got the courage to talk to her about this.
I asked her out for drinks a few weeks back and after us talking for about an hour or two, I asked her how come we haven't dated because we get along really well and stuff.
Here response was relatively positive but not definitive. She said that she agreed we do get along really well, that she thought I was indeed attractive, and that her friends had told her they thought we would make a cute couple. She also said that she basically just likes things to happen naturally (I think she got the vibe I was asking he to be my girlfriend right there and then). I didn't really push the issue and basically left it at that as not to make her feel pressured and uncomfortable.
Later that night after I dropped her off, she texted me asking how long I've liked her. I told her a few months and that I just finally realized I was looking in the wrong places when I had a great girl right in front of me. No response. The next day I left to go out of town and all of a sudden she is finding every which way to contact me. Since I was out of the country and I told her I couldn't text, she even started to email me and contact me on Facebook whenever she could. She would talk to me on Facebook every single time I logged in. Ever since I've been back she has been texting me a bit more than normal.
The only issue is that in person she doesn't seem very flirtatious. On the surface not much has changed between us other than the fact that she texts me more often. Then again I've only seen her a few times since I've been back from being out of town and she might just be nervous about what our other friends might think.
So do you guys think this girl likes me and has a genuine interest in potentially dating me soon or is she just using her new found knowledge of my feelings to get some added attention?
- She likes you and wants to date you for sureVote A
- No she has no interest in dating youVote B
- She seems on the fence about youVote C
- I'm really have no ideaVote D
Most Helpful Girl
i think she likes you,if she asked you for how long u've liked her she just wanted to know and maybe she has liked you at that time too..i know because it happened to me once.i think she likes you but she just hides behind the cellphone or computer.what you have to do is go out on a date with her ,talk,have fun..and kiss her,it has to come naturally and then ask her to be your girlfriend (it sounds like you really want her to be your gf) so you will see change on the surface.the fact that she talks to you means she likes you and she's probably waiting for you to make the first move and kiss her,ask her to dates or sth.0
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