The 3 pictures I have on my profile for this site are the same 3 I'm using for my online dating profiles but with dismal success. My question is there is obviously something crucially and earth shatteringly wrong with my profile (I know that) but in my efforts to do some process of elimination I am asking: Is it my pictures? Thank you in advance for any feedback.
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well, I could see 3 things:
1. your pictures have poor lighting. If you can stand so that the light is in your face and not behind you or on the side of you; and then take the photo.
2. You also have a standofish look in your eyes. You're not looking sexy into the camera, playful or charming. It's like you're say, "I'm here and I hope you don't notice what I don't want you to notice.
3. You're never looking directly into the camera. You're face is facing one way, while your eyes are facing the camera. It seems like you might be trying to hide something?
Try to put a smile in your eyes, look flirty into the camera or even a little cocky--you know, like your name is Joe Rocco and you're looking for a fight. The point is you want some aspect of a personality (more preferably your personality) to be evident in the photo. Now it just looks like you're a very reticient guy that doesn't trust us (the photo viewer), and hopes we will go away soon.
No harm meant, just giving you my opinion.0