Yes I have tried ignoring his texts but he eventually texts again. We have been texting for a while and he will not as me out on a date, I have a big feeling that another girl has 80% of his attention. He keeps saying he is busy and will ask me out this month, when his spring classes in college end (he also works full time).
I have a feeling I am not his main girl because I have seen maybe about 3 comments in Facebook that he is a bit flirty with another girl.
Now I want to let him know that if he is not interested to stop texting me, but when I ask him if he is interested he always says he is, and for the most part he texts me.
What can I do for him to not look for me if he is playing me? The ignoring the texts will just make him keep texting and that confuses me more.
I knew him from high school but have not seen him for 3yrs. He is a kind of shy guy and mysterious.
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I've been treated like this before and it's disrespectful.
If you're really interested in him just ask him straight whether he's hedging his bets using you.
If he answers yes or gives a vague reply then ditch him and demand that he leaves you alone.
Be direct and show him you value yourself.2