most guys seem to do almost anything to get a girl they like to kiss them...
last time I went out with my female friend who is really nice and who was looking for a guy. she's average looking, not very stylish and has this "stressed / pessimistic" vibe to her, which is why she's not very good with guys. anyway, a guy approached us and my friend thought he's so hot and the man of her dreams and bla bla :). so she paid full attention to him and flirted heavily. while I was trying to stay in the background and be a bit cooler with him. unfortunately she thought he's interested in me not her. I thought he's cute but the personality didn't fit and I already had another date to meet there. anyway, I told him he should make out with my friend and his answer was "only if you kiss me too".
I can tell that he meant it, so I'm just wondering how many guys do this and how many girls have experienced something like this?
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Dude was a bit of a player, and clearly didn't really care about your friend's feelings. I don't think that's normal among guys tbh, unless they're incredibly confident or deludedly sure it would make you jealous, they wouldn't do it or suggest it.
He may have just been willing to settle for (what he considered) less anyway but wanted to see if he could get you before he went for your friend. It's happened to me before, a guy that two of my friends liked was flirting with me. Didn't want to get involved with that shizzle so I just ignored him for most of the night, I thought he was cute too. He did go off with one of my friends in the end though.1