But then he finally realize that's he's putting all the effort, he's the one that initiates text messages and phone calls and finally realizes to back off because he doesn't feel like he's being met halfway, what exactly would you do?
I'm tired of doing what was mentioned above, it feels that if I don't initiate anything that she won't text or call. I want to back away and let her realize on her own what's going on.
Is that a good idea?
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If you really like her, what's the problem of contacting her? Does she respond to your calls or messages? How does she react when she's around you? Is she interested? Does she care about you at least a bit? Contact her but not everyday, let say about 3 times a week or less to see how she respond. If she feels bothered, time to move on. Based on my experience, the guys who chased me never complain about contacting me first. Well, I always respond positively so I don't know about this girl. If she acts cold, then you can just forget about her. However, make sure you tell her how you feel first(about liking her and tired because your effort is not reciprocated, you wonder whether she likes you or not kinda thing). Say it nicely but make sure she knows it!2
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