okay so I went on this date with this guy out to dinner. He was a real respectful guy and held the door open for me and paid for my dinner. He seemed to have a good time on the date. Then after dinner he took me home and I said thank you. He then said you're welcome and said that he would text me. So he texted me 10 min later and asked if I had a good time. I said yes thank you hbu? he said yes he did. but he didn't seem enthusiastic about it. then he was like "i hate long car rides home". and I said "lol I bet!". then all he said was "lol". did he not have a good time or not like me? he is usually all smiley faced in his text and all. it kinda feels like he's being standoffish. so I didn't even text back after that. should I just move on.
Did he have a good time?
What Guys Said 1
Was this a first date?
In any event I would just give him about 2-3 days and see if he asks you out again. If he does then obviously he either had a good time or at least wants to try again.
If he doesn't call...then you know...and you should move on...
If I go out with someone on my first date and I know it isn't going to work...I usually do try to make the best of the situation and act like I enjoyed it during the date...then I just don't call them back...
If I enjoyed the first date...I will def call within the next two days. Earlier even if I get that wonderful text or call from a girl that says they had a good time.
What Girls Said 1
Im not really sure, most guys (if not all) are confusing :\… But anyways I personally think you shouldve texted him a smiley face to see what he would text back. But you shouldn't move on just for that, he could of been tired or I don't know :\.
But you shouldn't worry yet, we as girls overanalyze this kind of stuff a lot . Just wait till he texts you again, or if you want you text him 1st :)0
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