I see and hear it all the time that when a girl gets mad at her boyfriend she will step back for a bit to cool off before she finally tell her boyfriend what the problem is. Meanwhile the guy is left wondering wtf is wrong with her.
So typically how long do you need to cool off when you are mad at your boyfriend do you need before you are ready to tell him?
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Depends on what he did to upset me. I usually come right out and immediately tell him what he did wrong that upset me. However, I do need a cooling off period before we can discuss it. But I make sure he knows what he did. That way when I've cooled down, we can have a calm discussion. But it's not fair to him for me to just get mad and not tell him what he did.
If he did something small, I'll talk to him later that day. Once my boyfriend made me so mad that I needed a week of zero contact before we could talk about it. So, it varies.0