My sisters best friend almost stole my current bf/bff, now we were all great friends with her untill this whole thing blew up when he started to really fall for her and vise versa, his heart would race any time she was around (as you can imagine was incredibly painful to see). And she would want him back as much as he wanted her.
Now, there was one drunken night where my sister told her to go for it but she was too shy so she told him (my bf) to go for her, so after a few more drinks were tossed back he finally did, grabbing her, kissing her, now I don't drink so I remember all of this vividly but I just went and cried myself to sleep, wanted everyone to be sober when I talked to them.
a month later and me and him are all OK now, I'm still on speaking terms with the other girl, but my boyfriend and her don't talk anymore but I can't help but hate her it's all of our fault but I feel like I'm angry at the wrong person entirely.
Now I knew how he felt about her but I still trusted him
He was grabbing her and vise versa
my sister encouraged them both.
- Your BfVote A
- The other girlVote B
- Your sisterVote C
- MyselfVote D
- All of the aboveVote E
Most Helpful Guy
Your anger should be directed towards your boyfriend because he kissed her
You should be mad on your sister for encouraging your boyfriend to go and do it
And you should be angry at the girl he kissed with for kissing with a guy where she knew that he was unavailable
But not at yourself, unless you want to punish yourself for not being able to stop it back then5