So I just started talking to this guy, Martin, and he claims to be "really honest" & "Straight up". Anyways, we were texting and I, in a playful way, said he was weird and added a "(;" to the end of the text. He replied with "what's normal, you? Cause to be honest, you ain't all that pretty to be acting like you all that". After I got really upset because I'm not the most confident person out there, so I said bye and then he texts me "Oh you get butthurt too fast, hahaha, late !" So.. was I being too sensitive ? I haven't talked to him since last night when all that went on.
I don't know what to do.
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Don't you see what's going on? He's an a$$hole who purposely tries to find a girl's weakness and attack it to keep her self-esteem low so he can manipulate her and make her desperate for his approval. No guy who cared ANYTHING about you would say such a thing, but instead of telling him to go F himself and forgetting he ever existed (because you were so confident in yourself that you REFUSE to let ANYONE talk to you like that), you are worried if YOU overreacted. Hell no, you UNDERREACTED, which is just what he was hoping for.
Don't fall for that crap, and don't take it from anyone.8
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