Long story, short as possible. Girl (sophomore) and I (senior), both in college were close last summer, almost official boyfriend and girlfriend. Agreed best to keep in touch and not do long distance.Throughout the school year, she was saying how excited she was for me to come home.
So, night I get back plan (Wednesday) plans were made by her to meet that weekend at my house Spoke to her again on Friday around 3PM. Saturday comes, she's an hour late, I defend her to my family only to find out she went to a music festival in the city. Her response: "If I have time, I'll come see you."
I warned her saying if you do my parents are pissed off. So I covered for her saying telling them she got a flat tire and would try to be here later. (don't know why I did that).
She never shows
Don't hear from her for 4 weeks.
Only responds after I reached out saying...I'd like an explanation if she was willing to talk call or text. She never calls and whenever I did she was always out and about.
Finally contacts me (text) and starts off on unrelated things. So I asked for an explanation, I specifically said, "about what happened" I assumed it was pretty unforgettable and obvious and I got a "What do you mean?"
So I responded a day later, "I'm not interested in playing games. If you wanted to see me, you would have been here. Personally, I think its better we stop talking."
No word since after intentionally bailed on me (don't believe she forgot), embarrassed me in front of my family, and didn't care enough to remember what she did.
Too harsh, harsh, fair, or right?
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You might've been too harsh, or she might be a bitch. It's basically not something you can know at this time. I think you should make a choice between giving her another shot and not doing so. If you do want to give her a chance you should basically explain the situation and your actions to her. (If you can't see her I'd do it by e-mail). Ask her to response, and if she doesn't then you should just give up.
If you don't want to give her another chance, try not to think about the possibility you've been too harsh and she might actually not understand what you were getting at.
But hey, that's just how I'd react in this situation! Good luck0