I've been seeing my girlfriend officially now for 2 months, but seeing each other for about 8 months. She lives 2 hours away and we see each other maybe once every month, twice in a month if we're lucky. While we weren't official I met this one girl on a dating site who lives in town and we've been just talking off and on for about 4 months now. We finally met and now I think I really like her. How should I handle this situation or how do I know who is right for me?
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Blaaaah you probably shouldn't have made it official with the girlfriend until you were sure she was the only one you wanted.
Anyway, basically my opinion is that if you're really "meant to be" with someone (you can substitute whatever phrase makes you puke less, like "perfect for someone" or "ideally compatible with someone"), you're not going to be interested in other people. But you are. You've been seeing each other for 8 months and you're not at a level of closeness that makes you genuinely only want to be with her.
Are you happy with her? Like, imagine the other girl wasn't in the picture. Do you feel like your girlfriend is truly great for you? Or are there certain things besides the distance that make you incompatible, things that would end up making you not 100% invested anyway?1