Ok I am going to make a really long story short. So I met this chick and the first thing she tells me about is her ex, and I am like ok whatever doesn't matter to me. She's in my class and so she would always tell me about her ex and blah blah blah about this guy, well I wasn't really paying attention to her and so up until this point I haven't put any kind of emotional feelings or whatever for her.
Well time goes by and she continues to talk about him once again I not paying attention, and so starts calling me and texting me, and just talking about whatever, so we have phone sex one day and she hangs around me all the time, from the moment I met her. So I know she's interested in me she says she is even asked me if I wanted to get serious with her, but she was still getting with her ex, so I basically avoided the question. So she starts saying things like hypothetically if we were dating or say we get together and stuff hinting at me to I don't know ask her out I guess.
And so I have come to the conclusion she's not over her ex but he's over her, so wtf does she want to have sex with me, sleep at my house, and date me? I figure she will always compare me to her ex so that's why I haven't really cared so ladies why do you do this?
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to be honest with you, she is looking for a rebound, (she may not know it) if she only talked about him once, that's understandable but all the time.. it means she is also thinking about him all the time. and ye, she would always be comparing you to him. and you are right, her ex is over her, but she isn't over him I don't think he's talking about her to other girls lmao.. she's a loser, I think you should stay away from her and let her heal on her own. or you will end up with her and later on feel like you wasted your time when she breaks up with you for a stupid reason.0