So I've been going out with this guy for 4 months now but we still haven't kissed yet. We both really want it to happen but neither of us have the gut to do it. All my friends just say to go up and do it and don't think about it but it hasn't helped so does anyone have any ideas to get over the nerves. Like ways to make him do it, or to give me the confidence to do it. Any suggestions would be helpful, I'm kinda desperate!
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Lose yourself in he moment.
Take away all the worry about if you're good enough, any self doubt, what your friends think and just focus on the actual feeling of getting to have your lips against his. Focus on how lucky you feel to be the girl kissing him.
Don't make him kiss you lol,then that might make things awkward for him, like "wtf why is she trying to make me kiss her?" ya know? like you would feel awkward if he was trying to make you kiss him.
I didn't have my first kiss until I was 18. The guy I kissed always made me really nervous and shy, but when he leaned in and kissed me, it's like all of that went away because my passions overwhelmed my fears :) You really just have to relax and embrace the whole situation.0