This is something I've noticed in the vast majority of girls! One girl I talked to a bunch would say "text me tomorrow" and I would say she could text me first, but she would still ask me to text her first. You always want us to text you first and I don't understand why! So: why?
I feel like I should tell you that doing this makes me feel like you don't really want to talk to me. Only when a girl texts me first every once and awhile am I sure that she really wants to talk to me. That's just me though, guys feel free to chime in to say if you have the same feelings about this.
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The reason you want to be texted firstis the same reason those girls want to be texted frst. They want to feel wanted by you and that you actually want to talk to them. It's their little "confidence boost." But I also think it is inconsiderate to cause of the guys' feelings of wanting to feel special too.
I have found that balance is the best thing in this case. Sometimes I text him first, and sometimes he texts me first. It should vary, in my opinion. And I believe it is somewhat sexist for girls to make thr guy text first every single time. It should go both ways. :)2