So I met a guy online over a year ago, spent a lot of time getting to know each other. I did pass on meeting up the first couple times because he was older and I was nervous and then the fact I didn't drive. He says he understood. Well over the year we have come to realize we are attracted to each other and Ik in my part I really like him and would like something more. Thing is we met in person once, he was very nervous and didn't say much. We have yet to meet again, but talk everyday. I finally after five months of not meeting back up asked him if there's something I can do to make him less nervous and want to see me, he said he didn't know and just really enjoys my company and doesn't want to mess anything up. Guys what dots this/ or could mean? I've asked him if he was attracted to me if that was the problem and he says that he is highly attracted to me. On one occasion he said he had feelings he can't admit so is he scared? Playing me? Any advice will help.
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There's a chance he's playing you, but I don't really believe it. He probably is just really nervous and worried about making you feel like you're being smothered or something, I dunno. Seems more just worried about pushing you away. Best thing is to try and help him understand he won't do that if you're really interested too.
But, in the end, it's hard to truly say without knowing the guy.1
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