I was seeing a guy for a couple months, everything was good but something happened to where I just lost feelings and I couldn't see my self with him. I was honest and told him I couldn't see him anymore. He started confessing how much he missed me and even went as far to tell me he loved me. He was a great guy and did everything for me, I just didn't have those feelings for him. I've been trying to be really nice about the whole thing and its been 2 weeks and he still won't let it go. Maybe I was being too nice by still talking to him and he says I lead him on into thinking we still had a chance. I never said we did, I just didn't want to hurt him so I did sugar coat it. Well he found out I kissed a guy, a guy that he has been jealous about since we started seeing each other. Me and the guy I kissed I only talked to at work. Now the guy I was seeing is very mad that I kissed the other guy, but we Haven't been dating for 2 weeks now and he says I should have thought about his feelings and not have done it, I don't know what I was supposed to do, I feel bad but I don't think I did anyhting wrong, and the guy I kissed had no idea or care in the world that me and the other guy even dated ( we all work together ). Am I wrong?
Did I really do something wrong here?
What Guys Said 1
What kind of man says "you hurt my feelings"? I just can't picture a guy seriously saying that. I think he's just trying to guilt trip you. Tell him to grow a pair.0
What Girls Said 1
You told him how you felt, perhaps you should have just broken off contact with him. He is pulling a guilt trip. Break off contact and move on.0
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