Say you've been talking to a girl, you get along great in text
Then you meet and have a proper date and that's great too
You keep talking to the girl but don't make another definite date and you slack a bit more than usual on the texts
Why? What would keep you from going for it?
I see this all the time with my girl friends and it's happened to me too. We meet guys, talk a lot to the guys(both starting convos equally), we go on great dates, we have follow up texts, but then it peters out and we never see these guys again.
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There could be a lot of reasons for this. The bottom line is that he's probably lost interest.
He could have lost interest because he thought you weren't interested enough.
-Didn't flirt with him?
-Didn't sleep with him soon enough (or give signs that you wanted to)?
-Didn't treat him any differently than you do your other male friends?
He could have lost interest for other reasons that are not nice to say that have to do with you.
He could have lost interest for other reasons that aren't nice to say that have to do with him.
I'd rather not go into these "not nice to say" categories, because I'd just be guessing, so here's just an example: Maybe you snort when you laugh in a really disturbing way; maybe he's got a package for you, but it's a much smaller package than you expected.
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