Guys, what is the absolute first thing you notice about a girl , & you decide wether you find her attractive or not?
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Her face. Does she smile normally (instead of frown/scowl), and does the smile come from her eyes as well as her mouth? That's the single most important thing, because I have no time to waste on miserable people in my social life. That's just draining.
If she passes that test, then I usually look at the rest of her. I check out her overall shape and her general style. I'm not super picky, but I tend to avoid girls with crazy/confused senses of style, and hippie/stoner girls, which are usually easy to spot by their clothes. I'd probably avoid her if she was ultra-conservative too ("Big Love" types in throat-high old ladies' clothes need not apply).
Of course, I will check out her boobs and butt (most guys do, and not all of them will admit it), but those are just kind of "bonuses". The real substance is usually found in the face, because that will tell you a lot about personality and attitude. I don't care how hot or "perfect" a girl's body is, if she has a rotten attitude or bad personality traits, I'm not interested.0