I am just wondering cause my best friend lied to me to go out with a boy on Friday. Yes I am protective of her but the guy she likes there is something about him that creeps me out, I don't trust him and know he is going to cheat on her. Anyone have a situation like this be for?
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There's nothing you can do short of being there when he hurts her. When someone tries to get between two people, it actually unites them further. You create this unit of "us vs her" in their minds. It gives them more in common and strengthens their desire to be together. I had a situation like this in high school where a buddy of mine was dating this really nasty girl a few years older than us. He'd ditch me to hang with her because she'd go down on him every time he saw her. Well, in the end, she completely ignored him and stopped talking to him. All I could do was shrug it off and carry on like it was before he met her. At least I had my friend back, even if he was an inconsiderate idiot.0