Ok, this is aimed mostly for guys, but what would change your views of your best girl friend into someone you'd want to date?
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1. I'd have to be attracted to her physically in the first place.
2. While she was my friend, she didn't sleep around with a bunch of other guys, or act in an otherwise high-drama manner.
3. She shows some interest in me, my ambitions, thoughts and so forth. A female friend that makes it all about her doesn't make for a good girlfriend. If she has been a genuinely good friend, then that's different.
4. If she feels more than friendship, she ought to tell me. Whether I agree or not is up to me, but leaving it out there for me to guess isn't the way to go about getting me to see you as something more. Be clear in your intentions.1