I have a long distance relationship and he has visited me. We had a great time and ended up posting our status and profile pic on FB (he initiated it) after his arrival back home. After a few days my calls and sms started to bother him, saying he has a very important work to finish. I found out recently he has a second profile on FB, which I didn't know about and he has about 80% of girls as friends. My friend has sent him a f. request and he accepted. Even asked her if they know each other on chat. I asked him about it. He said he isn't using it anymore. Tomorrow he continued to fight and called me at about 6PM to tell me that he decided to break up and asked me to change my FB status and mu profile pic (we were together on it). I did it. He the sent a sms telling me he still loves me but he has a feeling that we are hurting each other. And then at about 8PM he sent me a FB message: I can see you have changer your status and profile pic very quickly. I won't change mine though. I asked him to stop bothering me and to let me get over him. Then he told me that he was angry because of work and that he wants to be in a relationship with me. But we need to contact less cause he needs to concentrate. I accepted. HE sent me a sms yesterday saying that he is thinking bout me. And then today he accepted to go to the event from that other profile like he was mocking on me. If he has no time to chat with me why is he on that profile then?
And now he is barely contacting me. saying he is really in the working process. And whenever I give him a chance to choose between breaking up and more frequent contact he says he wants us to be together. I asked him to at least call me for 5 min every day and he is doing that. But, I'm still confused about the other profile and stuff... He wanted to break up and started to avoid me after I told him about his other profile. What do you think, guys? Girls, would you stay in this?
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If you're absolutely sure the other profile is his, then break it off. don't even answer any more of his texts and tell him not to call anymore. Don't even bring up the other profile because then he'll know to hide it and who ever he does this to after you will still have a chance to bust him too.2
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