I met a man on a dating site and we've been talking and seeing each other for about a month now. He told me that he cancelled his membership but I've been told by others that his profile is still up and that he still signs on. He tells me that he's not been talking to anyone else and that he's not interested in anyone else, that he really likes me. Should I bring this up or just let it go, since it's only been a month?
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If he didn't tell you he had taken it down, then I would say...yeah, give it another month. The thing is, he's already proven himself to be a liar. It's that plain and simple for me. I don't think you should have to wait another month to see "if" he actually does what he said he already did.
I'd bring it up now...doesn't have to be confrontational. Just let him know what you've learned and that if its rue, you feel disrespected about the lie in the first place (trust has already been broken and its only ben a month) and that you won't be able to consider bing exclusive as long as he is still on the prowl. You'll have to keep your options open. You can't sweep this stuff under the rug. Big yellow flag!0