OK, so basically I have a thing for this guy, we've been flirting with each other and talking lots the past few weeks, but that's about it. He used to hook up with one of my friends, not anymore though. All our group was hanging out, drinking partying etc. One thing led to another and I slept with this guys best friend.. (Yes I know terrible way to show someone you care, it happened I regret it, nothing I can do now, and I am not trying to make excuses for myself, but we were all very drunk and my 'crush' was flirting with the girl he used to hook up with). So the guy I am interested in was upset the next day, I am making the assumption that he assumes we hooked up, I think it was fairly obvious that was going to happen. In my defense I didn't fully realize he was actually interested in me, thought it was mostly harmless flirting. He was pretty mad/upset but I did end up seeing him a few days later and he never said anything, and we seem to be back on track .. But basically my question is, if he continues to be mad/upset and maybe won't want to progress any further, what can I do to fix this? I mean, he's slept with my friend, so can he really be that mad at me, especially since we were nothing to begin with, but now I want it to be..
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If he is upset, why? I'm sorry, I thought we were adults. A crush isn't going together. You hooked up, he knows, big deal. If you are in a relationship, he can be upset. Not here. If he is, well, there are other guys.
If he can't let it go, let him go.
I don't see how the friendship works in.0