Either from guys you have (or someone else you know has) dated or asked out by...what made this guy "boring", "stale" or "unexciting" that turned you off attraction-wise?
What did this guy do or not do, say or not say, that made you classify him this way (whether you actually dated him or not)?
Could he have done or not done, or say or not say, something that would've immediately make him desirable to you (or at least give him more of a chance)?
Please be detailed (giving examples if you want) so we can understand your reasoning and knowledge! 8-)
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Someone who gives me one word answers to everything would be a huge turn-off. "How's school going?" "Alright." "How's your band? Have you had any gigs this week?" "Yeah." Ugh, that's terrible.
Someone who either never wants to leave the house or never wants to stay home. Take me out once in awhile! Girls want to be shown off, it makes us feel proud and it totally boosts our confidence. However, I don't want to go out to a party seven times a week. It's totally fine to stay home and relax sometimes.
A guy who can never stop talking about work. Before my parents split, my dad would come home and talk for hours at a time about how much he hated this client at work, or how terrible his boss was that day, or how annoying the girl across the hall is. It gets old VERY fast.
Someone who always has a negative attitude. We all have bad days. But seriously, when every single day of your life is "awful", it won't last long. I need someone with a positive attitude and the motivation to make the bad days as good as they can be.
Hope this helps. :)4