I've been dumped for responding(not sending or dialing) phone calls and text messages too often as well as for showing my true personality and not role playing but I have also lost friends for acting like a douche and not responding enough and I'm sure the same would be true with young women who are more than just female friends. Is this to be done with prospective dates even though friends hate it and will let you go because of it?
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All I have to say is that is pretty damn childish for someone to dump you for. That isn't clingy by any means. They called you and sent you a message. OH MY GOD they contacted me back that must mean they are clingy; now I must dump him. lol. That is stupid.
I am a pretty independent person myself and I can tell you if someone dumps you for returning a call or text they must have a bad self-esteem to be thinking that you care too much for them for doing that. I say don't care they contacted you, you wouldn't want to date a person that thought that anyways. And if they freak out if you don't return a call or text right away that is another sign of bad self-esteem. Omg you actually got busy and you must contact them back. They shouldn't freak out you got busy and might of forgotten the message or really can't answer at the moment. You can return it when you have time and there are other people in your life too. Not saying they aren't important though.
I can tell you personally I'm not a person for texting. I use to be, but why can't you just call and talk more than a freakin text. It gets done faster too if you just want to ask to hangout or figure something out to do together plus you actually get to hear their actual emotions through the phone.0