I am 20 years old, and a current college student.
In my opinion most of the girls my age just want to party and get crazy. I'm not into that kind of stuff, I want to have a legitimate relationship with a girl and not have to worry about her drunken stupors every weekend. Partying just seems so over rated. Sure its fun every once in a while to have fun but most of the girls I am running into my age just talk about alcohol all the time and tell me stories about their trips to Vegas and how they got so wasted. I find it extremely unattractive.
If I date an older it women it seems they want to jump in and get married quickly. I am not at the point (at least financially) to get married just yet..Though I do enjoy the idea.
Older women would seem to have their life together and know what they want.
They don't spend their money wildly on alcoholic binges every weekend.
I want a women to just do life with. Take places, hang out with, and grow together.
Whats your opinion on my situation?
Can I get your opinions?
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I am almost 20 and in college and I don't party. I feel the same way you do. I have no desire to do it and gettign drunk just doesn't sound like a good time. I'd much rather be watching movies or playing Call of Duty with my boyfriend. I am blessed I found a boyfriend that doesn't drink or party either. So, they are out there. Not every girl in college parties. I suggest you join a club or organization. If you are religious, join a Bible club. Join a club that has to do with your major. You are bound to meet tons of new people and girls, and I guarantee you will meet a girl there that doesn't party. If she is taking time and an interest to be a part of a club, she is probably not a big partier.2