I met this girl online a while ago, we met up for coffee a couple weeks ago, and just yesterday we went out to dinner. (kind of our first date I guess.) I can tell she had a good time cause she was smiling and laughing a lot, and I was having a good time as well.
There was a lot of eye contact, even when we were laughing we'd look at each other, so it seemed like we were having a good connection.
There wasn't any physical contact really, except subtle touches of our feet (which I think was not on purpose..) I paid for the food or course, but she gave me a ride home since I don't have a car.
I asked her to get out her car for a hug, cause she didn't jump at it, but I gave her a good hug and she did this little bouncing thing and smiled at me after the hug, kind of like she really liked it but she didn't want a kiss just yet. - Is it a bad sign she didn't get out to give me a hug without me asking? Or could she have liked that I was assertive and told her I'd like a hug?
Anyways.. So we made plans to go snowboarding next week. I have only been on this one date with her, and she is already comfortable going up to the mountain with me all day! We haven't had any real flirty touches, but we seem to like each other enough to hang out all day already..
My questions are:
-Should I treat this snowboard trip like an opportunity to get closer to her romantically?
-Is it like a "date" trip or more like two friends going on a trip kind of thing?
-Would it be a good time to go for the first kiss on the trip, (say she fell down and I stopped to help her up so I used this opportunity for a kiss? does that sound like a thing to try or would it make the rest of our trip awkward?
I pretty much want to make this trip as amazing as possible. I DO NOT want to have fun but put myself in the "friend zone".. If you gals or guys can give me any tips to make this trip more on the side of a date than just a trip I would appreciate it. I want to impress this girl and get closer to her as well, I'd also like a first kiss since I usually end up in the friend zone if I don't get at least a little physical by the 2nd date..
Thanks for any tips, advice and for answering my questions. :)
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Well if you two are going alone, that is a good indicator it is a date. I wouldn't worry about the kiss to much during your time there, if it happens it happens if not it doesn't. If anything at the end of the date give her a kiss on the cheek. At the least this will show you are interested in her as something more than friends, but you also are not going to force her to do something she doesn't want to just yet. A kiss on the cheek can be harmless, yet still give the impact you are looking for. I hope this helps man. Good luck to you. I also am going on my first date with this girl next weekend. We are going to a hibachi restaurant. I hope it will go amazingly just like your first encounter did haha.1