My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to two years. I am his first girlfriend and he has told me that he misses the new feelings we had in the beginning of our relationship. I am afraid that since I am his first girlfriend and we have kind of lost the spark and new feelings we had in the beginning that he may want to break up. We have talked about everything and he says that he doesn't want to break up but part of me thinks he is only saying this because he doesn't want to hurt me. I really need help please!
How to keep the spark and excitement alive after close to 2 years of dating with nothing to do where we live?
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Keeping the spark and excitement alive should be a priority for the both of you, he should be as concerned as you are. Complacency happens in relationships, it's also a relationship serial killer. Try doing the things that draw you to him, also try new things to keep him guessing. Do your hair differently or in his favorite style, plan a trip outside of your city(even if it's a few cities away), buy sexy clothes for his eyes only, get dolled up for him occasionally, and be creative and spontaneous, especially in the bedroom(the beach, roof and car etc, if you're comfortable getting down like that). Good luck.0
Everyone fantasizes from time to time about other people which is considered normal; however, it's not normal for one to want to act on their thoughts when in a relationship. If you're boyfriend thinks that he's susceptible to cheating, then perhaps you should try strengthening the bond between you two. I've heard that guys are more likely to stay loyal to their best friends. Are you his best friend? Is the spark reignited? Another possibility is slowing things down while assuring him of how important he is to you, until he's sure of what he really wants.0
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