If I am interested in dating a guy, do I text him first? If so when do I text him? If I haven't heard from him in a day or so am I being pushy if I casually text him again? If we text back and forth for awhile and we stop a conversation, is okay for me to start a conversation again the next day?When should I know that I should not text a guy and that he is not interested? I swear I am not a heavy stalker type texter. This is why I ask these questions, I feel like I am not being assertive enough.
When is okay to text him first? When do I know he isn't interested?
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Do not text him first and if you already have for god's sake, don't text him again. It's hard to play the passive role but when you make it too easy for the guy and pursue him, a light goes off his head that he doesn't have to work as hard. A lot of times a guy waits to see if you chase him. A man likes to pursue. If you make his job easy, he will not cherish and appreciate you. Have patience girl. Let him wonder about you, and text you. It's always better that way!1
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