Guys, let's say you meet a girl and you get on the subject of dating, and she says to you "I've never really dated." or "I've never been on a date." Would you see this as a turn off or would you be hesitant to start dating her?
I didn't date anyone in high school, I didn't even kiss a boy until I was 18, and I don't know why but I feel kind of -- like a loser in that sense.
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I'm not sure. My first reaction is that it's not a big deal at all, kind of interested to learn why she never did date, but also it'd be kind of exciting to be her first.
The second reaction that comes to me is exactly that, I'd be her first and sometimes the first person you date is who you remember forever. It can be a lot of pressure in that way, not saying it's a big deal but just something I'd think about perhaps.
Someone who waits to date, has those dating experiences later than most isn't a loser to me. They may just be waiting for the right person.0