The guy has asked lets say 3 times now. The girl has said no to all of them (kindly though). What made the guy ask the girl on a date THREE times (spaced for a month or so). In each specific occasion, he kind of begs like "oh please come on". This has happened to me with 2 guys. The first guy was a complete player. After the third time I said no he said "WHY? If you don't say yes this time I won't ask you again."...I was like " no prob lol", but this sounded pretty radical to me, if he really liked me he wouldn't have said that. The second guy isn't a player though, but I found it a bit weird how he literally begged me to go on a date with him for the second time. I didn't know guys begged he was like "come on please give us a chance lets just see if it works." after me saying I didn't want to ruin our friendship, he didn't initiate contact after that. if he really liked me he would understand right, not get mad, am I right?Did they really like me so much or were they only about the "chase"? Did they really want a relationship with me?They are 16/17 year old guys btw.I wasn't playing hard to get, I just was NOT interested in pursuing a relationship with them.
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the kid sounds pretty immature and pathetic and he seems to have a difficult time taking a hint. from a personal standpoint, if I ask a girl out once and she declines, I would never even think of asking twice. I forget all about her and I don't waste anymore time on her, I'll just focus my efforts on some other girl I'm interested in.
begging lowers your value as a man and it's just plain sad.0