Cause I'm caring and it's weird Because I'll be texting a guy and I feel bad if I don't reply within the day, it's stupid. Like I'm super caring . How do I not be so caring?
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There's nothing wrong with being caring, you just need to be mature enough to realize that a lot of guys, especially your age and a bit older, are too selfish and immature to appreciate it. That's going to be especially true of the good-looking/popular/confident guys, because most of them aren't looking for a relationship, and many not even a friendship with a girl unless it involves sex.
Guys your age are in their sexual peak years, and many (and nearly all of the attractive, popular ones who have lots of options) are only interested in girls for sex. So you may have to seek out the shy or less confident (with women) types of guys, as they're the ones who are more likely to appreciate the fact that you care, and they're more interested in real relationships as well. It's just that you'll have to take more of the initiative with those guys, because they'll mostly be too intimidated to approach you or make a move.4