if you just aren't one of those guys who naturally have the personality or whatever that attracts lots of hot women without trying, is it ever sad or pathetic to then start reading up articles and stuff to learn how to be better with women?
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. . . . Don't be a "bad boy", you want to attract girls who jump into guys' beds that easily? More like you aren't attracted to the right type of girl. Romance? With her? Won't happen, not with her bad guy either. I've never been attracted to that type, so I'm not qualified to say it's true that when girls go for bad guys, it's because they're harder to be "special" for, but most people explain it similarly. Instead of letting guys do the chasing, those girls sometimes do, break through his "tortured soul" -gag- unless they're a masochist I can hardly see alternative reasons. Lots of nice girls are attracted to douches, too, but I think it would be better off (relationship searching wise) to just not be too puppy doggish. Just don't jump to buy her everything, text her first every time, etc. Be a bad boy only to get sex crazed girls in bed, then resume your actual "personality" during daylight hours. It should be easy to pull off, at a party you can be all "that's just an image" and all dark and secretive, ooooh. Sounds kind of mean, and it is, and really manipulative, but better that than actually becoming a wham-bam-thank you ma'am guy not worried about the girl's expectations or feelings. So, only crazy sex loving girls. If you' can't find them, you're not looking hard enough. There are tons who don't cost money.0