well, yes, you did notice her clear, pretty eyes, and sweet smile etc. but it wasn't just about pure physical attraction (as in: "she's sexy / cute / pretty and I want to do her") but it was a bit more like: "she's beautiful and there's something special about this girl that shines through".
as a girl I've experienced this type of "tender infatuation" with a couple of guys before, but I'm wondering if it ever happens to you guys as well.
it's basically a feeling you get when you look at someone and you feel strong physical attraction mixed with genuine tenderness, hard to explain but tried my best! :)
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as I explained to a girl I met on my first day at uni, having talked a bit on fb before term started (it's a bit melodramatic, it was sent right before I was fairly convinced I was about to die and I was fairly amped up on a mix of numerous things):
hell, the first time I talked to you on fb I thought you were sweet
the first time I saw you I thought you were hot
the first time I talked to you...my brain shut down
I thought I was going insane
because at that moment I could have sworn that I was dreaming, or that angels really did exist
and now...now that we've talked so much? Shared all the stuff we have, traded insults and sweet words and everything in between and more?
Now I know
now I know they DO exist
and I'm one of the only people ever to have met one without dying first
hell, I'm almost crying as I write this because I love you so f***ing much, that this isn't even a fraction of what I want to say.
Theres too much
So in short, yeah, I know exactly what you mean. There was something special. then when she came over and we got talking it was just...everything else just faded out at the edges of my vision. everything just narrowed down.0