Being hurt over and over is probably one of the triggers to why I've lost complete faith in marriage and in men in general. But how does one get out of this hell hole of a trap? All I feel is anger all the time and just hate the thought of a man persisting a relationship with me in general. I suppose the only good from all this was setting up my own business etc which has made me feel I can take on the world alone.
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Take an honest look at yourself and what you look for in a guy, I bet you will find you are going for guys with a certain look.
You need to find out what you need in a relationship, not what you want.
Get out some paper and put a line down the center, on one side list all the things you like a guy to have. On the other side, write down the things you did not get in past relationships and wanted.
Than compare the 2 lists and see if any of the things you listed you want in a relationship matched anything in the list you made for what you wanted a guy to have.
I bet the 2 lists don't match at all.1