I am still very much in love with my ex despite it being 4 years since we split, however she has no idea as I decided to keep my dignity and hide this fact from her. I didn't once before and it led me to a terrible place; with us falling out for over a year. When we became re-acquainted, her feelings for me came back but I hid mine away, obviously terrified to be hurt again. We aren't entirely out of each others' lives now, I mean we have plenty of mutual friends- her best friend is pretty close with me actually. However she's been with someone else for 3 years. Would letting her know I still have feelings for her be a mistake?
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I don't think any good can truly can of it. If she had been single then maybe there would be a chance to get back together but I don't think that's going to happen now. If anything, you telling her could make things uncomfortable for her when she's around you and she'll know in the back of her head that you aren't really over her after all this time.1